Does "I Do" Mean "I'm Done?"
Susie Savvy has a long held belief that when people say ‘I do,’ they mean ‘I’m done.’ You put your best foot forward in order to ensnare a potential, attractive mate regardless of timeframe or effort required. It is amazing to Susie how quickly that valiant, some might even say stalwart effort can evaporate when said mate is in the cave by the fire on a nightly basis!
I do means just that. I work hard at my relationship all the time.
89.3% (25 votes)
I do really means we do. I put in the effort when my partner does.
10.7% (3 votes)
I do really means I try. Sometimes the relationship goes to the back burner.
0% (0 votes)
I'm done is right. It was hard work getting together and now I'm going to take it easy.
0% (0 votes)
Sarah’s approach is largely collaborative where at all possible. She only works with clients who are ‘not into punishing their spouses.’ She says, ‘it’s difficult no matter which end you are on. All cases are different – fact patterns, history, what you want.’ She loves her clients and is in this field to help people. Before you get the notion that she is a total touchy feely, pre school teacher type: when necessary, she is no pushover and can be tough when she has to be! She charges $175 for an initial consultation/interview and her hourly rate based on her experience is solid at $235/hour.